Dont be someone's sometimes

In our lives, we often come across individuals who come into our lives only when it is convenient for them. They are not necessarily our close friends or family members, but they show up once in a while and then disappear without a trace. They can be referred to as “sometimes” people.

These “sometimes” people are not reliable, and they do not have our best interests at heart. They only come to us when they need something, and once their needs are met, they vanish without a second thought. They do not care about our well-being or our lives. They only care about themselves.

It is important not to be someone’s “sometimes.” We deserve people in our lives who are committed, trustworthy, and supportive. We should surround ourselves with people who genuinely care about us and our well-being. These people are the ones who will be there for us when we need them, and they will not disappear when things get tough.

Being someone’s “sometimes” can be hurtful and damaging to our self-esteem. It can make us feel like we are not important or valued. It can also make us question our worth and our ability to form meaningful relationships.

We should not settle for being someone’s “sometimes” because we deserve more. We deserve people who will be there for us through thick and thin, people who will support us and lift us up when we are down.

To avoid being someone’s “sometimes,” we need to set boundaries and communicate our expectations clearly. We should let people know that we value their presence in our lives, but we expect them to show up consistently and not just when it is convenient for them.

We should also learn to say no to people who only show up when they need something from us. We should not allow them to take advantage of our kindness or generosity. We should prioritize our well-being and only allow people into our lives who respect us and treat us with kindness and compassion.

In conclusion, being someone’s “sometimes” can be hurtful and damaging to our self-esteem. We should surround ourselves with people who are committed, trustworthy, and supportive. We should communicate our expectations clearly and set boundaries to ensure that we are not taken advantage of. Remember, we deserve to be surrounded by people who genuinely care about us and our well-being.